I didn’t know what to expect when I went to my first BBYO event. I was nervous, unsure I’d fit in, and didn’t know many people. But from the moment I walked through the door, something felt right. The room was full of laughter, friendly faces, and a kind of energy I hadn’t experienced before. Everyone was so welcoming, and for the first time in a long time, I felt like I truly belonged.
Since that day, BBYO has become more than a weekend obligation—it’s become a huge part of who I am. It’s where I’ve made some of my closest friends and discovered the power of being part of a community that uplifts and supports you.
Over the past two years, BBYO has brought me friendships that go far beyond my local BBYO chapter. I’ve spent countless hours laughing, planning events, running around at conventions, co-chapter events, regional moments, and unofficial get togethers, just enjoying surrounding myself with an amazing community of people. These aren’t just “BBYO friends.” They’re lifelong friends who feel like family. At this year’s BBYO International Convention in Denver, I was able to connect with Jewish teens from all over the world. It amazed me how, even though we came from such different places, we were united by shared values and a shared love for this movement. It reminded me how much bigger BBYO is than just me and my journey.
BBYO is also where I found my voice as a leader. I used to be someone who was hesitant to speak up or try something new. But through BBYO, I’ve gained the confidence to lead programs, speak in front of large groups, and step into roles I never thought I’d be ready for. I’ve helped organize everything from Shabbat dinners to regional events, and through each experience, I’ve learned how important teamwork, communication and passion really are.
One moment I’ll never forget is my first regional convention in spring 2024. That weekend was packed with pure excitement, nonstop spirit, tradition, and connection. Competing in the race for the Spirit Cup and being part of all the special senior traditions made me want to get even more involved. It’s also when a lot of my close friendships finally clicked and I formed so many new ones. It was during that weekend that I truly realized how vast and close-knit the BBYO community really is.
BBYO has also helped me strengthen my Jewish identity. Through programs and discussions, I’ve been able to both learn about and teach different Jewish values and traditions, and I’ve found a new appreciation for my heritage and the many different ways it can be practiced. Whether we’re lighting candles on Shabbat, volunteering in our communities, or having real conversations about what it means to be Jewish today, BBYO has made me proud to be a young Jewish leader in today’s world.
Looking back, I honestly can’t imagine my life without BBYO. I sometimes wish I had joined sooner, but I’m so thankful I found it when I did. It has shaped who I am, taught me to lead with heart, and shown me the joy of being part of something bigger than myself, something that I am reminded of every single day.
Now, as I begin my time as New England Region’s 81st Regional Sh’licha (Vice President of Jewish Enrichment), I feel excited and ready to give back to the movement that has already given me so much. I can’t wait to pass on what I’ve learned and help others find the same sense of belonging, purpose, and pride that BBYO continues to give me.
Julia Weshler is a junior at Needham High School. At school, she is involved in the Jewish Student Union, National Honor Society, and Student Council. Out of school, she is a JTI Peer Leadership Fellow and a proud part of New England Region BBYO. Julia loves being a part of the Jewish community in the Greater Boston area and working to create a better community for everyone.
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